{"id":455,"date":"2010-10-29T12:52:58","date_gmt":"2010-10-29T17:52:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jaimerios.com\/?p=455"},"modified":"2010-10-29T12:52:58","modified_gmt":"2010-10-29T17:52:58","slug":"appropriate-thing-to-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/?p=455","title":{"rendered":"Appropriate thing to say"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was at a funeral for my wife&#8217;s great uncle. Sitting in front of us were his grandchildren and my mother-in-law recognized one of the boys and said, &#8220;I remember you. I was at your bris&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ah&#8230; awkward&#8230;&#8221;, he replied.<\/p>\n<p>I tried to lighten the moment by saying, &#8220;You don&#8217;t normally hear that at a funeral&#8221;, though I thought his response was better than mine.<\/p>\n<p>Now I shared this story with my co-worker and he said, &#8220;You know, it would have been more appropriate to say, &#8216;I remember when you were born'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But then, what would have been the appropriate thing to say to something that is inappropriate? &#8216;Oh yeah! It healed up fine. Do you wanna see?'&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was at a funeral for my wife&#8217;s great uncle. Sitting in front of us were his grandchildren and my mother-in-law recognized one of the boys and said, &#8220;I remember you. I was at your bris&#8221; &#8220;Ah&#8230; awkward&#8230;&#8221;, he replied. I tried to lighten the moment by saying, &#8220;You don&#8217;t normally hear that at a &#8230; <a title=\"Appropriate thing to say\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/?p=455\" aria-label=\"Read more about Appropriate thing to say\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[207,246],"class_list":["post-455","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-funny","tag-funeral","tag-inappropriate"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=455"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/455\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=455"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=455"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jaimerios.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=455"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}